A little over two years ago, my daughter was identified as having EhlersDanlos Syndrome. Have you ever heard of that syndrome? EhlersDanlos is a connective tissue disorder that affects the joints, skin, eyes and sometimes the heart on some people. My daughter's eyes, skin, joints and heart are affected by it and give her GREAT pain after any physical activity. She is told not to play any contact sports, jump rope, carry a heavy backpack and today with her heart affected by it, she'll no longer be allowed to dive off any high dive. If you're wondering about the high divemy daughter is on the diving team and Likes to dive! I became sad, I cried, I felt my feelings and have become free! I learned and realized the message in all of this and that this would produce an opportunity to teach my daughter to feel free from it as well, no matter how much pain she endures by using it. My daughter will learn how to feel free! We will be free!
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I felt that the syndrome my daughter only agreed to be given was like dealing with an alcoholic that wants no help or recovery. In other words, I had no control over it, I could not cure it and I did not cause itwell I think I didn't cause it. EhlersDanlos is genetic and you never know who may have had it on my side of the family or my husbands, we simply do not know and when saying that I truly do not care to know since i only care about getting the proper help for my doctor and how to keep her from injuries. That attitude of 'who cares' became a positive and not a negative Nike Free Run 3 Hot Punch
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with negative thoughts I always had churning within my head. I was the doom and gloom drunk! I never could find nor should I say WILLING to see that there is a light after any tunnel. It was not until I came to be sober that my life would see bad things as not so bad any more. I learned that every time challenged with something in my life was only another way of God talking with me, sharing with me and telling me to learn more about others and me. That was my spiritual awakening which became freeing in my experience every time I had to face a new challenge. I found I did not drink whatever the things that I went through and experienced which helped making me to be STRONGER, more MINDFUL and fewer in DENIAL of my issues within my recovery. I realized even though I do not know much about EhlersDanlos I'm not alone, because there are many more people out there in the world that struggle with this and I can reach out too. My positive attitude learned in my recovery allows me not to feel sorry for myself or teach my daughter to be lessthan, shameful, have selfpity or be angry about this. In return, I will educate my daughter, teach her how you can be more mindful of her body, her limitations and mostly be true and open to herself when dealing with her EhlersDanlos. This will allow her to be free and never a prisoner of it. Being a good listener to my daughter, when allowing my daughter to share her concerns, questions and know about with it will allow her to become free to talk about it without feeling scared, shameful or resentful of her limitations.
My daughter, since first identified as having EhlersDanlos in 2010, has gotten all new doctors. Although, it wasn't easy finding the right doctorssince many don't know the facts behind EhlersDanlos but again, it wasn't the end of the world in finding the best doctors. My positive attitude kept me from abandoning finding the right doctors for her. She's a Geneticist, Rheumatologist, Cardiologist and Physical Therapist all exist for her if she needs it. That's freeing! When going to new doctors we have recently found out more about her syndrome, how much she is affected by it and just what she needs to do to prevent injury. This really is freeing! It is wonderful understanding how my recovery allows me Nike Free Run 3 Online Canada
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is really much different from my drinking attitude and i'm blessed to be present for my daughter. I'm blessed not to deny my daughters limitations and to accept them to prevent her from injuring her body or possible having her disabled by the time she is in her 30's. My daughter does not need or has to be the next Olympian or best diver in the world. I will accept her limitations and by doing so, this will allow me to see her for who she is and love her with no control. This is freeing! My daughter will instead be a motivation to other athletes with limitations and show others that having healthy boundaries in your life will allow you to accept, love and respect yourself. This really is freeing! I am so proud of my daughter that the test is endless of how I feel about her and just what I think she will become when she's older. Knowing my daughter would not be able to run like me without complications provides me with such gratitude about what I can do so freely when others may not.
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